{"id":1206,"date":"2015-12-01T20:59:47","date_gmt":"2015-12-01T19:59:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/stg-blogs.bmj.com\/adc\/?p=1206"},"modified":"2015-11-30T22:57:54","modified_gmt":"2015-11-30T21:57:54","slug":"drained","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stg-blogs.bmj.com\/adc\/2015\/12\/01\/drained\/","title":{"rendered":"Drained"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/stg-blogs.bmj.com\/adc\/files\/2015\/11\/fuel_gauge_empty-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-thumbnail wp-image-1207\" src=\"https:\/\/stg-blogs.bmj.com\/adc\/files\/2015\/11\/fuel_gauge_empty-2-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Compassion fatigue.<\/p>\n<p>Burnout.<\/p>\n<p>Exhaustion.<\/p>\n<p>Call it what you will, many, if not most of us, will at some point &#8211; probably many points &#8211; crunch into a spell where putting in 110% has left you with nothing but a rattling can. And perhaps a desire for chocolate, gin or trash TV.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s been mentioned before here how I\u00a0think it&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/revdavidsouthall.com\/2014\/01\/20\/organising-my-pants-drawer-on-self-care-and-depression\/\">a good idea to identify your own pants drawer<\/a> as a warning sign, an orange &#8216;fuel low&#8217; blinker that can alert you if you&#8217;ve not noticed. But knowing your pants are disorganised isn&#8217;t going to make a difference if you&#8217;re not acting on it; just seeing the little orange fuel pump doesn&#8217;t help add diesel to the tank.<\/p>\n<p>How can you\u00a0react when it&#8217;s flicked on, though?<\/p>\n<p>There in lies another difficulty. When the alarm is blaring, it&#8217;s not really time to think calmly about how to respond. We need to practice it before hand. Like emotional sim training. So if you&#8217;re not there now &#8211; and given what was going to be happening today but isn&#8217;t, a few may be past this &#8211; can you think into what it&#8217;s like? Do you focus on negatives and spin into spirals of what ifs?\u00a0Do you use unhealthy supports (see chocolate, gin, trash TV)? Do you wall-up, and stop seeing people just patients?<\/p>\n<p>Some time, awareness of the now, and knowing you are not alone may be helpful. Identifying those around you who are good to let know, who will ask you <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ruok.org.au\/\">&#8220;Are you OK?&#8221;<\/a> and listen to your answer may be an approach. <a href=\"https:\/\/moodgym.anu.edu.au\/welcome\">Revisiting the web-based CBT programme <\/a>that helped US interns may be for you. Or somehow, someway,\u00a0giving someone permission to make you stop.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And breathe<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And fill up again.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>#nojudgement<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Bob Phillips<!--TrendMD v2.4.8--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Compassion fatigue. Burnout. Exhaustion. Call it what you will, many, if not most of us, will at some point &#8211; probably many points &#8211; crunch into a spell where putting in 110% has left you with nothing but a rattling can. And perhaps a desire for chocolate, gin or trash TV. [&#8230;]<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"btn btn-secondary understrap-read-more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/stg-blogs.bmj.com\/adc\/2015\/12\/01\/drained\/\">Read More&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2681],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1206","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-practice-of-medicine"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stg-blogs.bmj.com\/adc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1206","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stg-blogs.bmj.com\/adc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stg-blogs.bmj.com\/adc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stg-blogs.bmj.com\/adc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stg-blogs.bmj.com\/adc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1206"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/stg-blogs.bmj.com\/adc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1206\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stg-blogs.bmj.com\/adc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1206"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stg-blogs.bmj.com\/adc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1206"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stg-blogs.bmj.com\/adc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1206"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}